What makes you smile? For many people the Kate Spade brand has made the list. Although, the company has been sold it still is going in the direction that it was set by its name-sake. Her purses are inspiring. I, for one, love the upbeat look of Kate Spade. It is nice having a purse for all of life - just about everything from the sidelines as a basketball mom to rushing off to work. Walking into the store is a bright and energy-giving experience.The brand doesn’t tip-toe around and shyly express it’s thoughts. Its look is bold and airy. Its polka dots and stripes are whimsical. This is truly a happy brand for me and many others. So many wait with anticipation to see what the Spade's new brand, Frances Valentine, will reveal about life and style.
I walked through the Kate Spade store this past Sunday while my kids participated in a mall scavenger hunt birthday party. It was fun to look and see bits and pieces of style, like visiting an art gallery. I tried on purses and was especially happy with their bright pink cross-body (hello wish list)! Then, a few days later, I was at the mall again. (I am not usually there that often, I promise!) From a store called White House Black Market, my eyes looked across the walkway at the Kate Spade store on the day of her death.
I couldn’t go that day.
My happy vibes faded to grief. Joy to Pain. It is a puzzle to me how these things happen. She had such great success and beauty. She had great wealth and industry impact. Her death is such a tragedy. As I looked at her news stories I thought, she looks like she could be the mom next door.
Suicide can happen to anyone; it even happened last month to a senior at my son’s school. This precious boy was accepted to a top University and had meaningful friendships. We are frail, prone to pain, suffer and lose our way. Some warning signs include: talking about wanting to die, buying a gun or hoarding medicines, insomnia, and losing interest in things and becoming withdrawn with family and friends (American Foundation of Suicide Prevention). Calling the hotline, 800-273-8255, is one way to get help.
Suicide is an evil villain.
May beauty rise in the midst of this tragedy! May new colors be embraced as we live color fully. I am going to continue admiring the legacy of art and visual happiness that the Kate Spade brand portrays. I will continue to keep Kate Spade bits and pieces on my wish list.
Yet, as I do, I will be more aware of the threat of suicide. As I wear this brand I will keep in mind that all people are vulnerable. May grace surround those that love her as well as other suicide victims and may Comfort truly reside with all of us in times of grief and loss.
“Bear one another’s burdens.” Galatians 6:2
