Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Indoor Rainy Day or Snowy Day Fun with Kids


Looking at the forecast for the next week I am struck by the Seattle rain storm and the entire Northeast being covered with snow. Winter is here. I thought it might be fun to reflect upon some fun rainy day and snow day activities for kids that will save their parents from going batty while making delightful memories. To say the least: being pro-active can combat the constant battles that emerge from stir-crazy kiddos.
 Go ahead and make your home an Indoor Playground with these snappy ideas...
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10. Make Forts: Get out all of those blankets, pillows, chairs, and tablecloths. Forts are a great and creative way to go “camping” indoors. It is a wonderful creativity tool and a make believe world. By making forts kids use their building imagination to make their dreams come true. Sleeping in the forts that night is even better. (As long as they go to sleep, anyway!)

9. Read Books: Pile the books high in front of you and read one after another. Don’t get up for as long as you can. Use crazy voices and accents, and point to the pictures. Get into it and talk about them. Get excited about books and love them along side your kids. Reading is practically becoming a lost art, with the idiot-screen (including video games, movies, television) taking over for most kids – so take the opportunity to buck that trend and dive into those children’s books.

8. Bath-time fun: Get those kids in the bath with lots of toys. Shaving cream is a great bath-time toy. They can paint it on the walls and put it in the water. Also, get those summer-time bubbles out and blow them at the kids in the bath. They will love to grab at them and see them land in the water.

7. Pull out the play-dough bin: Make homemade play dough if you need to. It is fun to sit at the kitchen table and create sculptures, snowballs, and bricks. Getting those cookie cutters and rolling pins out of the kitchen drawers to add to the fun. The kids love to bring their ideas to life.

6. Clean your closet: Kids enjoy trying on high-heeled shoes, sandals, and fancy scarves. They can find treasures in your closet while you take inventory and re-organize and de-clutter things. It is just so cute to see them stumble around the house all gussied up with nowhere to go.

5. Bake: Make something yummy. Start with the ingredients that you have at hand and go from there. Don’t let the fancy cookie recipes make you think that you have to go to the store. Use what you have. Stay home and be creative; try something new, and get the kids involved. Pancakes are a great way for kids to practice cracking eggs. Cookies are a yummy wet weather treat. And when your spouse comes home, they will be stoked!

4. Craft Centers: Raid the craft closet and get out those craft supplies that you save for a rainy/snowy day. Put them on the kitchen table and use them (let the kids use them, that is). It is great to spend time creating something and using the supplies at hand. It can also be fun to get out the recycle bin and use the supplies in there to make new and exciting things – milk cartons, cardboard boxes, and newspaper make for creative materials.

3. Play with your pet: Make a snuggly bed for your dog, a raisin trail for your bunny to follow, toys arranged in a square to make a new play yard for your guinea pig, decorate the fish tank, or grab some yarn and tease the cat. It is fun to engage with those furry friends in a new way. The kids can see how fun their pets really are.

2. For those techie kids: make a short video. Use your cell phone to do the video recording. (If the kids are old enough to use it themselves – probably age 2, right? – let them be the videographers, too.) They can act out something or describe something like a news reporter. They can watch themselves when they are done with their show.

1. Have a dance party: Bust out the 80’s dance tunes…or some more current pop/dance stuff that’s appropriate for the kids…and crank it up to 11! Be sure to dance with the kids – they love seeing their parents jump around with them. Bonus: This burns off a lot of the kids’ energy, and it’s good exercise for you, too!

-1. Go outside and get really wet in the rain or play in the snow. The great thing about a bad weather day is that going outside and jumping in puddles or playing in the snow can burn off a lot of cooped up energy. It is fun for the kids to have a rainy day or snow day fort so they can be outside in the bad weather and be under cover. If the kids do get wet, dirty, or cold you can easily fix that in a jiffy.

Then you can come in and do all of the numbers 1-10. Embracing the indoor lifestyle can be a lot of fun for kids and adults on those gloomy, blustery, or frigid days!

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Honolulu Happy

In my former, first, and most famous blog, I shared that I love Hawaii. It was so well received that all 7 of its readers bought tickets and are now there! Clearly, this is an effective blog. It is really hard to know what to write about after that. Although, since that blog, I have been chit-chatting a bit about Hawaii with friends. Those that know me well know that those Islands make me smile. Oh yes, what a great thing to talk about over the last week! It helps that a handful of my friends were actually in Hawaii showing pictures through Facebook and text messages.

The theme continues as this past week has brought some new Hawaii thoughts to mind. How cool is that! 

As a true Washingtonian, I almost started to question my heart for my beloved Hawaii.

Why do I long for it? Looking back and reflecting, it all started in the middle of a really cold winter in Salt Lake City. The snow was deep and only the brave ventured outside. Naturally, I put a tropical magazine picture of a sandy beach on the wall in my bathroom.



Walking by it, bathing kids, and so on – time and time again – I would see it, and it made me smile. I could smell the tropical flowers, feel the surf around me, and taste the shaved ice. Just like James Taylor was “going to Carolina in his mind,” I was “going to Hawaii in my mind.” Oh yeah, baby! 

Later came another tropical intervention when my “I want to go to Hawaii” parenting power began. Whenever my kids were desperate for something that they couldn’t have I had a quick response (still do). They would say something fussy and negative like, “I don’t want that chicken and rice for dinner; I want a hot dog!”

Lucidly and tranquilly, I would respond to the little one’s demands and say calmly, “I want to go to Hawaii.”

I joined them in their time of suffering. We both wanted something that we couldn’t have at that moment. They wanted a hot dog and I wanted Hawaii. This parenting power enabled me to sit beside them wanting something that I couldn’t have at that time and teach them the deep truth of delayed gratification.

Although, they are seeing that some gratification is overwhelmingly and exceedingly delayed because it has been 17 years since my feet touched the Island sand – but who’s counting!?!

So all of the Hawaii chit-chatting has been fun for this true Washingtonian. It has added clarity to all that is chic Hawaii. Oddly enough, my husband Brian and I watched a show last weekend called “Hawaii Life.” This HGTV show follows people who are moving from far away places, such as Delaware or Canada, and shows them buying their Hawaiian dream home. Hey, it is good to see people living their dreams, right? Gotta love that. Although, I must say that miles away I am living my best Hawaii. Contented as a clam: knowing that I can have it if I really want it - but that it is only for holly jolly days to come, if they come.

There is something good about wanting and waiting.

There is something amazing about the picture on that old bathroom wall in that frozen winter.

So, it seems, my love for Hawaii finds space once again on this blog. Maybe I will be able to move on next time, we will see. Aloha!