Thanksgiving, the un-demanding Holiday

I love teaching. I recently asked a class of kiddos what their favorite holiday was, and one child excitedly responded, “Black Friday.” But what about Thanksgiving, I thought? No one said it. But then I thought: Thanksgiving is so generous that it gives way to everything around it, even Black Friday. With this un-demanding Thanksgiving holiday ahead, I went to Target this week for a table cloth. There were aisles and aisles of Christmas decorations but I couldn’t find the Thanksgiving stuff anywhere and got lost in my shopping for everything else: Neosporin, hairclips, binders, extra hot Cheetos, and socks.

I realized at the checkout that I had not seen the Thanksgiving decor in the store and went back to the tablecloth aisle and found a little something, thankfully. Thanksgiving doesn’t demand our attention on aisle 9; it just quietly slips on in. I would like to propose that maybe Thanksgiving is more of a way of life and the holiday is just an extension of living. It is serving, giving,

writing, enjoying, and remembering.

Thanksgiving, the un-demanding holiday, is something that I have to strive for all-year round. Sometimes I feel too busy or self-preoccupied to share but when I do life is so much better. We can serve others and distribute the goodness all around us. We can help others to give as well. Sharing without knowing it is normal when I live it.  

Write down the things that you are grateful for: make lists and lists or just say them. Our family shares what we are thankful for at the dinner table every time we gather. We go around and share what we are thankful for from that particular day: seeing someone, a ride home, kayaking, getting a car fixed, funny things, or playing a particular song. This is a way of celebrating

the everyday grace that surrounds us. 

Our very food sustains us. Relationships transform us. Wisdom leads us. Faith guides us.

Traditions of thanks proceed us in this un-demanding holiday. One harvest celebration of thanks lasted for three days in the Colonies in 1621. Edward Winslow, who came to the New World on the Mayflower, wrote about this celebration. The celebration sprung from the protestant tradition of celebrating thanksgivings which was also

like a day of prayer to thank God. It is good to take time out for this tradition of prayer and service. The Native Americans also had a history of gathering so this naturally flowed from their lives as well. Truly, I love to gather with friends and family. This year there will be 21 loved ones around my table.

Sure, Black Friday is exciting and the stores were oddly in full-boat Christmas mode in October; but more than a simple day thanksgiving is life. It is celebrated each day and opens our eyes to so much more in life? Maybe we actually don’t need a Thanksgiving section of a store? It is an existence, after all. Why not live a life that fully mirrors the grace that we have been given? Sounds like a life worth living.

Happy Thanksgiving all of you "out there" in cyberland, and to the beGwen blog groupies!